Puppet Ponderings: A Brilliant Analysis
There are two kinds of people in the world: people who think there are two kinds of people, and people who think it's much more complicated than that.
So I won't start off asking: Those two people might view a political rally and have completely different reactions. Discussing it becomes a "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"-type difficulty in communication. One person feels proud of the creative statements, while another complains they've turned the event into an undignified "circus," even though their numbers are few. Of course, puppet vs. non-puppet is a silly dichotomy. It must be more like a sliding scale, with a variety of in-between views. I wondered what might be the nature of that scale. I'm not expert in sociology, but I did speculate, as you will see shortly. Continued below:
I want to bring this up because maybe I'm in the minority. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
I'm an artist, and most of us can agree that's a minority. Although Julia Cameron in the best-selling The Artists' Way makes a good case that humans are natural artists, but this is often socialized out of us at an early age. After that, she says we repress our inner artist, and have conflicting and often uncomfortable feelings about artistic expression - feelings that "regular" people don't do this. Hundreds of exercises are included to reclaim the inner artist.
BACK TO DEMONSTRATIONS: ARE ARTISTS WEIRD? BUT that ordinariness is desirable, I hear, because then passive onlookers will identify with those people and realize: "They're just like me. I could pick up a sign and join them!" The 10% with a self-made statement attract my attention and those are the mostly the ones I single out to photograph, because I delight in that and want to make a record of it. Not suprising they are photo-ops for other media too. But some of our number hate that the flamboyant ones will get the media attention. And that Joe Average scanning the news coverage will have his suspicions confirmed: that mostly weirdos do this sort of thing, and that although he may sympathize with the cause, he should remain a spectator. I can understand that concern. My family was non-political, and conveyed the message to their young'uns that demonstrators were weirdos and radicals, not regular people. ANY public action was suspect, because nice people don't make spectacles of themselves. My mom's own brother participated in Civil Rights marches in the 50s and early 60s - she considered that radical and weird. He even wore a Castro-style kinky full beard, which PROVED he was weird.
It's been mentioned how careful the black marchers were to appear mainstream in their dress and manner; their skin color alone was enough stigma. A black person back then who marched AND wore a beard or Afro probably would've ended up dead. But back to the Scale idea. I'm making this up, but no doubt sociological studies have been done -- please enlighten me. I imagine a fuzzy line. INDIVIDUAL____PAIR-BOND_____SOCIAL One side might be called individualistic, the other is communal. One end represents solitary activities; reading, writing, creative work and play often is that end. The other side represents shared actions and social bonding. Most people do both of course, and maybe pair-bonding is in the middle, but many feel more natural on one side or the other.
SOCIAL BONDING Take this social bonding to extremes, though, and you get the groupthink of mass movements, religious fundamentalists, even tightly knit small towns, which indoctrinate their members to conform and punish dissenters. SOOCIAL BONDING AND ME I missed the social bonding experience growing up. Though my parents disparaged eccentrics and weirdos, they also declined to be become part of any group and didn't encourage the kids to, either. They didn't talk to neighbors more than necessary. We moved many times. Family members weren't especially fond of each other, either, and mostly did their own thing. The 'rents were freaked when one sister joined a Christian Youth group in high school and started wearing a cross and quoting the Bible. "She's just going through a phase," they said. Turns out to be true -- she now admits she never believed, and joined cause she had a crush on a cute Christian guy. Another sister is now a true Fundie. But I digress. In retrospect, it was lonely, but on the other hand there wasn't pressure to conform to a large group's norms. I took comfort in solitary activities, including artwork. I could read, draw, and use my imagination. No one could take that away from me. Later, I went to art school, where being original, creative, and iconoclastic is advantageous and is encouraged. No group activities. It was glorious! To this day, social bonding experiences seem somewhat unnatural to me. Large crowds are claustrophobia-inducing -- especially cause most people tower over me. My instinct is to avoid crowds. ANY church services, even Unitarian, make me feel like an anthroplogist observing native rituals. I don't belong and feel relief at departing. The same with things like ballgames. I went a few times to please a date. I'd rather spend a night in a Turkish prison. Now I tell my husband: Go and have a good time, see ya later. I have to remind myself to be friendly to neighbors, instead of just contentedly minding my own business. And now I'm a PCO! That's really stretching the envelope. MY POINT Yes, there is one, I think. In 2003, I overcame my antipathy toward crowds and groups because of my political passion. I marched in a HUGE crowd, the first Seattle antiwar march, but instead of claustrophobia or alienation, I felt SOLIDARITY, for the first time in my life. It was heady stuff. I notice this difference in percption though:
ANTI-CONFORMITY DEMONSTRATORS
ANTI-WEIRDO DEMONSTRATORS Such a person is uncomfortable with the attention-getting artistic displays. Those seem like clowns, frivolous entertainers, look-at-me types who interrupt the solidarity theme. SO That is my brilliant attempt to analyze the PRO-PUPPET-ANTI-PUPPET disagreement among us.
FEEEDBACK PLEASE?
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