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Attempted Murder

Gentlemen, wash your hands. I'm immune suppressed. When you don't wash your hands, you're trying to kill me. It's attempted murder.

Why am I pointing this out now? Because I'm a guy and I use men's restrooms and see everyone's behavior. And should the avian bird flu virus hit, or equivalently nasty bug, it'll likely kill me. A fate I'd prefer to avoid for a bit longer, thank you very much.

We all know that men claim to wash their hands, but don't. Even after doing "number 2". Which is incredibly icky. My observation is that around 30% of men rinse their hands, and 15% use soap. (I can't speak for the hygiene habits of women.)

I understand that washing your hands is still a new idea for many of you. And that there's no shortage of confusing opinions from bozos who deny the germ theory of disease.

Regardless, in the reality-based community, it's understood that washing your hands is the easiest, most effective way to prevent the transmission of disease.

It's also good manners.

There are thousands of people who are immune suppressed: HIV, organ transplants, graft vs host disease (after a bone marrow transplant), auto-immune diseases, chemotherapy, etc. Even the elderly, infirm, children, or merely stressed out people have weakened immune systems.

I was fussy about germs before my bone marrow transplant. During the course of the treatment, the staff indoctrinate you to be obsessive compulsive. Not Howard Hughes level craziness. Though pretty close. The alternative is death. Of late, I've trying to relax my regime, purposefully exposing myself to more germs, in an effort to build up the immunities that had I lost. I still do stuff like using a towel to open bathroom doors and try not to touch my face.

Of course, I indoctrinated my son. Adherence is always spotty. The way to know if someone washed their hands, versus just wetted their fingers, is to feel between the fingers.

I'll share one last anecdote. A former girlfriend was really into dancing (e.g. ballroom, swing, etc.). There's a lot of hand touching in dance. Her and her friends were talking about the issue, wondering about some of the men. She wanted an honest assessment from a guy about male hand washing. I told her that so many men don't wash their hands, and there's no way to predict who actually washes (regardless of appearance), it's just easier to assume that no one does.

Said briefly, men are yucky. I say this so that women know to start applying withering peer pressure on the men in their lives.

That is all.

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I wash my hands
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Most of the time
Roughly half
When I feel the urge
Whenever
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Problem with this poll is it's not linear. I wash my hands when I do icky stuff throughout the day; sometimes when I don't even do icky stuff. When I'm making food, I typically wash them several times.

On the other hand, do you know the difference between blue collar and white collar? White collar washes their hands after using the restroom; blue collar washes them before. It's a joke, but it's rooted in reality; there are good reasons for this, if you think about it.

by m3047 on Thu Mar 15, 2007 at 02:29:21 PM PST

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  • Threshold by zappini, 03/15/2007 04:32:56 PM PST (none / 0)
Hand washing is an act of kindness toward others.  Like many kindnesses, it takes imagination and initiative -- becoming more conscious that people affect each other even in invisible ways. Like turning down the heat or cutting down on car trips, because you realize your behavior really does have consequences, even though you don't see them directly.

I'd bet women are not much better at handwashing than men, though I've never done a survey.

Frequent handwashing also has the advantage of removing toxics from your hands: Everyday Exposure to Toxic Pollutants, a Scientific American article.

Another way people affect others without knowing it is with chemical fragrances.  I have a close relative on disability from chemical sensitivity.  She was exposed at home and at work to chemicals for years and now becomes seriously ill from fabric softener, perfumes, drycleaning places, hairspray, etc.  She can't use public transportation.  Can't go to a movie or a show or to a restaurant.  Grocery stores make her ill.  She stays away from doctors when she's sick because the bathrooms (air freshener) and waiting rooms make her ill.  She is effectively isolated from most social, work, and everyday shopping situations.  Typically people get angry and defensive at her when she tries to explain her condition.  Interesting how that is -- a prevalent defensiveness in our culture?

I'm glad you came through the illness and treatments and are now at the stage of, I was going to say, exposing yourself, um, to germs : )     That's always a sign of health.

by noemie maxwell on Thu Mar 15, 2007 at 07:13:41 PM PST

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